HER Review
“Dating and community for LGBTQ+ women and non-binary people”
★★★★★4.2
Price
Free · Premium from $14.99/mo
Active Users
13M+
Best Age
21–40
Founded
2013
What is HER?
HER is a social and dating app built for lesbian, bisexual, and queer women, as well as non-binary and trans people in LGBTQ+ communities. Beyond matching, it includes community feeds and events in many cities.
✓ What we love
- ✓Built for LGBTQ+ women and non-binary users — not a mainstream add-on
- ✓Community features and local events in major cities
- ✓Inclusive gender and orientation options
- ✓Safer tone than generic apps for wlw matching
✕ Watch out for
- ✕Smaller user base than Tinder or Bumble outside major metros
- ✕Premium unlocks likes and filters — free tier is limited
- ✕Less relevant for straight men or gay men (see Grindr instead)
Who is HER best for?
Lesbian & bi womenQueer womenNon-binary datersLGBTQ+ community
Our Verdict
HER earns a 4.2/5 in our editorial review. It's particularly strong for Lesbian & bi women and Queer women. The free version is functional enough to decide if it's worth upgrading.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is HER free?
You can create a profile, browse, and match on the free tier with limits. Premium adds more likes, filters, and visibility. Pricing on this page reflects U.S. tiers we last checked; your store may differ.
Who is HER for?
Lesbian, bi, and queer women, plus non-binary and trans people looking for dating or community. It is not aimed at straight men seeking women.
How is HER different from Bumble?
Bumble is a general app with a women-first mechanic. HER is LGBTQ+-first with community feeds and events, which many wlw users prefer for identity and safety.
Is HER safe?
HER includes verification, block/report tools, and community guidelines. Like any dating app, meet in public first and use in-app reporting if something feels off.
Can I cancel HER Premium?
Yes, through Apple App Store, Google Play, or HER account billing depending on where you subscribed. Disable auto-renew to stop future charges.